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puddimoutoWhen you're hurt, either you find a way to be alone, or try to find someone you love the most for an embrace.
People get hurt by many things. Can be from someone else, or a moment where a tragedy happened, which hurts them. But a tragedy is caused by a human being. Everything happens because of someone, or something.
Life seems hard. No, it is hard. And we get hurt most of the times. We tend to hurt ourselves, to ease the pain away from our hearts. Or we tend to drink to forget about the pain. Or we just simply fall into something even more scary, just to wash the pain away.
I do not believe, that that behavior will lead us to salvation.
Everyone has their own level of pain. Not everyone is as strong as we are. Knowing that we are strong enough to get through this, why don't we just have faith, have the willing to forgive, forget, and move on? Put a smile on our beautiful faces that will definitely be a blessing to someone else?
We should live to bless other people. To be there for someone who's going through something so difficult. Put aside our ego, and start looking out around us. Have the attitude to care, and be the one for a certain person to lean on to. We can easily do that, rather than whining about our own problems which only wastes more time and energy.
"No, my problem is too heavy. I'm too hurt. I'm hopeless. I can't help anyone, because I'm too hopeless."
No.
Recently, I've been through something horrible, I thought that I shouldn't be doing anything but just sit there and be an idiot for the rest of my life.
But then I figured, that by being happy, is to make other people happy, first. Meaning, we forget about our pain, and start reaching out to someone else, who probably has been through something way more tough.
There is no point in life that I keep wishing that everything will be perfect. I kept wishing, "I wish everything will be perfect. I wish everything will be perfect. I wish everything will be perfect." Wishing, won't help.
Even though we have crappy lives, but we have someone who loves us truly.
Sometimes we feel that nobody loves us. Big mistake in our brain there. Someone does love us. We're just too blind, feeling too sorry for ourselves to even open our eyes and see that there people who love us.
They have their different language to love us. Maybe it's time for us let go of our ego, and start understanding other people.
It's ego. Our worst enemy. An enemy that we have in us, since the day we were born. But we can still fight it. Why not fight it, if it'll make us a better person?
It's time for us to pray. Have faith, love and hope. Time to forgive, forget, and move on.
- Pudding
People get hurt by many things. Can be from someone else, or a moment where a tragedy happened, which hurts them. But a tragedy is caused by a human being. Everything happens because of someone, or something.
Life seems hard. No, it is hard. And we get hurt most of the times. We tend to hurt ourselves, to ease the pain away from our hearts. Or we tend to drink to forget about the pain. Or we just simply fall into something even more scary, just to wash the pain away.
I do not believe, that that behavior will lead us to salvation.
Everyone has their own level of pain. Not everyone is as strong as we are. Knowing that we are strong enough to get through this, why don't we just have faith, have the willing to forgive, forget, and move on? Put a smile on our beautiful faces that will definitely be a blessing to someone else?
We should live to bless other people. To be there for someone who's going through something so difficult. Put aside our ego, and start looking out around us. Have the attitude to care, and be the one for a certain person to lean on to. We can easily do that, rather than whining about our own problems which only wastes more time and energy.
"No, my problem is too heavy. I'm too hurt. I'm hopeless. I can't help anyone, because I'm too hopeless."
No.
Recently, I've been through something horrible, I thought that I shouldn't be doing anything but just sit there and be an idiot for the rest of my life.
But then I figured, that by being happy, is to make other people happy, first. Meaning, we forget about our pain, and start reaching out to someone else, who probably has been through something way more tough.
There is no point in life that I keep wishing that everything will be perfect. I kept wishing, "I wish everything will be perfect. I wish everything will be perfect. I wish everything will be perfect." Wishing, won't help.
Even though we have crappy lives, but we have someone who loves us truly.
Sometimes we feel that nobody loves us. Big mistake in our brain there. Someone does love us. We're just too blind, feeling too sorry for ourselves to even open our eyes and see that there people who love us.
They have their different language to love us. Maybe it's time for us let go of our ego, and start understanding other people.
It's ego. Our worst enemy. An enemy that we have in us, since the day we were born. But we can still fight it. Why not fight it, if it'll make us a better person?
It's time for us to pray. Have faith, love and hope. Time to forgive, forget, and move on.
- Pudding
